【入居者インタビュー】20か国57名、国際交流シェアハウスに住んで4年5ヶ月で沢山の家族と出会うことができました。

こんにちは!広報担当のYuyaです!

ボーダレスハウスは、世界中から集まった若者が一つ屋根の下で暮らしながら、異文化に触れ合う多国籍シェアハウスです。

英語力の向上はもちろん、最高の仲間との出会いと、新しい価値観に触れる異文化シェアハウスライフを提供しております!

今回のブログではそんなボーダレスハウスの物件に4年5か月以上滞在してくださっている日暮里シェアハウスのかおりさんに、入居者インタビューをしてみました!

かおりさんの人柄もさることながら、素敵な思い出の数々は必見です!

ハウスメイトはみんな家族。楽しいことも悲しいことも、みんなで乗り越えてきました。

ー自己紹介をお願い致します。
鈴木香緒理です。今NGOの職員をしています。上野日暮里ハウスに住んで4年以上が経ちました。

ー実際にボーダレスハウスで生活を初めてみててどうでしたか?良かったこと・大変だったことを教えてください。
ボーダレスハウスのハウスメイトは私にとって家族みたいな存在です。楽しいこと・何か良いことがあった時にそれを共有しあったりだとか、反対に辛い時でも支え合える、それが本当に良いところです。
大変なことはもちろん、文化も違う、生まれ育った環境も違うということで異なる考え方にびっくりしたりすることは確かに時々ありますが、それも乗り越えられるものだと思っています。


ー先ほど家族のような関係という言葉が出たんですが、どのような過程を経て家族のような関係になったのか具体的に教えてください。
そうですね、まず最初はお互い初めて会う人同士なので、相手を知るというところから始めていって、どんな考え方を持っている人なのかとか、なにが好きなのか、なにに興味があるのか、そういうたわいのない話から始めました。人生の大事な価値観だったり、自分が大切にしていること、悩みとかを共有したりだとか、そういうコミュニケーションの積み重ねをしたことによって、結果的に本当に仲良くなれたといえます。

ー逆に家族だからこそぶつかってしまうことはありますか?
やはり違う価値観や考え方を持つ人同士が暮らすので、もちろん意見が違うこともありますが、そこでまず「相手はこういう風に考えているんだ」と受け止めた上で、自分自身の考え方も共有しするようにしています。お互いを受け入れつつ妥協するところは妥協して、お互いが納得するところで収めるが大切だといつも思っています。

シェアハウスの屋上で見る花火は、夏の大切な思い出です。


ーいままでの生活の中で一番印象に残っているエピソードはありますでしょうか?
今まで楽しかったエピソードは数え切れないほどあります。例えば、このハウスは屋上から毎年隅田川の花火大会の花火がよく見えます。スカイツリーも見えるので、ちょうどスカイツリーの両側に花火が上がるという綺麗な風景を、三年連続ハウスメイトと見ることができたことが嬉しかったです。あとは浅草にみんなで行って、着物体験をしたり、だれかの誕生日のときにみんなで一緒にお祝いをしたりというのも大事な思い出の一つです。

ー他のハウスの入居者さんとの交流があったかどうかも教えてください。
時々、近くのボーダレスハウスのハウスパーティーやたこ焼きパーティーに呼んでもらったりして、時々ハウス間の交流をしました。

国籍・文化・バックグラウンドが違ってもみんな同じ人間だということ

ールームシェア(ドミトリーのお部屋)で良かったことを教えてください。
三年間ずっとルームシェアをしてきて、今まで台湾、アメリカ、中国等、様々な国から来た本当に魅力的な女の子たちと同じ部屋で共に過ごし、楽しいことも辛いことも分かち合える、何でも話し合える存在ができたことが一番の宝物だと思っています。

ー生活の中でのご自身の学び、気づき等何か変化があれば教えてください。
ボーダレスハウスで暮らし、国、文化、母語、性別、バックグラウンドが違う人と何十人も一緒に暮らしてきた中で得た気づきは、違いがあったとしてもみんな同じ人間で、分かり合える、理解し合える、友達や家族のような存在になれるんだということを学べたのが一番の大きな収穫です。

世界20か国、57名の人と出会えたのもシェアハウスにチャレンジしたからこそ

ー住む前から、住んだ後、そして4年経っての感想を教えてください。
このハウスに引っ越してくる直前はどんな人がいるのかなとか、環境になじめるのかなとかという不安や緊張がありました。実際にハウスに入居した頃、ハウスメイトに会うたびに「こんにちは」といったよそよそしい状態だったのですが、それに対してハウスメイトが「おかえり」とか「ただいま」とか言ってくれたことで、打ち解けて家族のような挨拶をし合える関係になりました。
4年間で本当に沢山の人と出会ってきて、4年間で一緒に暮らしてきたハウスメイトの数を数えてみたら、20か国57人でした。本当にみんなと仲良くなることができて、一緒にハウスパーティーをしたり、観光をしたり、本当に数えきれないくらいの大切な思い出を一緒に作ることができています。
当初は迷いもありましたが、このハウスに住んでみて本当に正しい選択をした、本当に良かったと今なら自信をもって言えます。

ー最後に、読まれている方に一言メッセージをお願いします。
国際的な環境で暮らしたい、様々な国の人と出会ってみたいと考えている方には、ボーダレスハウスは最高の環境だと思います。ぜひ一歩踏み出して、日本での留学体験として、ぜひハウスで暮らすことを考えてみてください。

ーかおりさん、素敵なお話をありがとうございました!女性のドミトリーのお部屋で過ごされているからこそ築ける関係性や、出会ったハウスメイトの国籍の数は、国際交流シェアハウスならではですね。
日暮里ハウスから見る花火は本当にきれいです。
ぜひ皆様もシェアハウス生活を始めてみませんか?

かおりさんの住んでいる日暮里ハウスの詳細はこちら!

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非公開: 【Staff Interview】As a graduate from Harvard University, how did Claire join Borderless House?

Hi, this is Ting from Borderless House!
Today we are having an interview with our American staff member – Claire, who is also the only Borderless House member from a western country.

I am very curious that how Claire feels about working abroad in Japan, where is famed for intense work culture and the work environment differs greatly from an American workplace, also how does she think about the working environment at Borderless House? Is there any moment that makes her feel hard because of cultural differences? Do any interesting episodes or difficulties occur between her and her colleagues because of the cultural diversity at the workplace?

In the meantime, let us get a brief look at what Claire’s currently working on and how a regular workday looks like as a Borderless House staff!

Working culture and environment

ーHow is your day going, Claire?
My day is going really well!

We had our usual morning meeting, except today we shared stories about times when we experienced cultural misunderstandings or surprises at the workplace or within the sharehouses. As an American working in an international environment at Borderless House Tokyo, I was able to share how I was surprised by the company culture and international environment which I was welcomed into.

ーThat’s good to hear! Sounds like the working environment is totally different from what you thought?
Many people, including myself, have the impression that all Japanese companies are extremely strict and overwork their employees, so I was nervous about working for the first time in Japan. All these preconceptions turned out to be false! Borderless House is an environment that feels like home and like family rather than work to me. Of course, there are stressful times, but I don’t need to wait until after work gets off to feel better because I can just rely on my coworkers to help me manage the workload and ease my stress. I almost think it might be a more comfortable company culture than that which I have experienced in America!

I just finished a delicious peach jelly which was brought to the office as a gift from one of our house owners (thanks Mr. Miazawa!) and now am in the middle of working on some translations and revisions for the website.

Regular workday and responsibilities

ーIs this what a regular day looks like for you?
Yes, in terms of both eating snacks and also with the type of work (lol). On Tuesdays we have an all-company meeting including the Kansai Borderless House team and are able to discuss any recent news or ongoing difficulties that need to be solved. As for my own personal tasks, I have a pretty varied and exciting set of tasks. First off, I am involved in Japanese to English translations for the website, blog posts, and for tenant emails. I also from time to time have written my own blog posts. I also have the opportunity to help with marketing and planning for new campaigns and company initiatives. One of those new campaigns is the Online Language Exchange which takes place every Tuesday night, and I have really enjoyed participating with other tenants from a variety of different countries. On Saturdays I also have been assisting with our online information sessions, both in Japanese and in English, showing individuals what life inside one of our share houses really looks like. Spoiler alert: it’s super fun and exciting!

ーThere are various tasks you work on! As far as I know, other than those regular tasks, we always need your opinions and suggestions, since we have 50% non-Japanese tenants, non-Japanese staffs’ advice is always helpful to us!
Yeah, as the sole staff member from a Western country, I do my best to provide some personal cultural insight into how we can best spread our information and concept to other groups of people outside of Japan and Asia. It may look like a lot, but I have so much fun each week helping out and really believe in Borderless House, so I want to do my best to help it thrive!

A journey from Borderless House resident to Borderless House staff

ーBy the way, how did you find your way to Borderless House? You were first a resident right?
Yeah, that’s right! I moved into Borderless House Iidabashi House last year in August and only became a staff member this year in March. Between August and December, I was settling into life in Japan and realized that my schedule was not really full which was causing me to feel really unfulfilled. I knew that I should try and make the most of my time in Japan, but I just didn’t have any clear idea of what I should do to fill my time.

ーSo what’s the trigger that makes you want to work with us?
The reason that I decided to work for Borderless House was that I was so grateful to Borderless House for providing me with a sharehouse family that I wanted to give back. I wanted to help promote Borderless House outside of Japan and let more foreigners know about this company. As there was no native English-speaking staff at the time, I also felt that I could help with company interactions with foreign residents!

ーCould you share more details with us about the processes of becoming a staff
The first time that I pursued a position at Borderless House was in October during the Borderless House Sports Festival. Prior to that, I’d had some really great conversations with the Borderless House staff members when they had come to the house for move-ins, move-outs and maintenance. The staff always were so willing to talk candidly with me and they had only positive things to say about the company when I asked what the company environment was like. I already had personally experienced the positive effects of Borderless House’s efforts and so I wanted to be a part of the staff who made it all happen! That October, while covered in sweat and flour (from one of the games we played), I nervously approached Mr. Lee, the company president, to express interest in working at Borderless House and after filling out an official application in February the process was finalized in March. I haven’t had any regrets since!

People who work at Borderless House


ーThat sounds amazing! We would like to hear more about Borderless House staff!So what are your coworkers like? Who do you get to work with?
Given the type of tasks that I do within the company, I am really lucky that I get to interact with almost every single member of the staff. I also have the opportunity to interact on a regular basis with our company president, Mr. Lee, to discuss new programs and website initiatives.I really appreciate the communicative and collaborative environment which is fostered by the staff. For example, when we have staff meetings, we are encouraged to bring up ideas and comments, even if it is in regard to a project which we may not be directly working on.
Also, I have really enjoyed taking my lunch break in the office with other staff members to talk about our own international experiences, and our future goals and dreams. As one of the younger staff members, I feel that I have a lot to learn from my co-workers and I love hearing everyone’s life story. Sometimes these conversations even carry on past working hours and into dinners and nights at izakayas together.

ーWhat is your personal opinion of Borderless House?
My experiences both as a tenant and as a staff member have left me with an overwhelmingly positive opinion of Borderless House.
Borderless House has a massive heart for bringing people together and serving its tenants well. I think that as a tenant, I was able to feel the family environment of Borderless House in my own house community. Now as a staff member, I feel that my Borderless House family has grown and expanded to include all tenants in all houses as well as all of my co-workers.
I think that the social mission of Borderless House is also extraordinarily unique and impactful. It is not very often that you are given the opportunity to live with an entire house of people who share different backgrounds and different beliefs than you. Borderless House teaches you how to listen and learn well from others and I truly believe that for tenants who fully embrace the mission of living at Borderless House, they will leave their share house as a better version of themselves.all of our tenants leave as a better version.

ーSo how would you describe the company?
In just a few phrases, I would describe it as a family away from home, people-oriented buss, international, and growth-minded.

Any last comments or lessons you learned during your time at Borderless House?

I think most importantly, I was able to realize that doing meaningful work is the key to happiness in my own professional life. As someone who has not mastered Japanese and struggled to find a job in Japan where I felt that I was making a difference, I finally felt like I was able to contribute in a meaningful way at Borderless House. Of course, there is paperwork and other computer-based tasks that need to be completed, but at the end of the day, I am able to go home to a house full of friends and realize why I am working so hard every single day. I have faith now that there are jobs and companies that will be ready to serve people and to make a difference in the world- I just need to find them!

Lastly, to all of the readers, I think it goes without saying, I would highly recommend trying out Borderless House life for yourself!